a confession

[ألــوان]

hi to all of you here...i am writing this because of what i've been seeing here in this forum.
a lot of things are not going as they should be..and i believe i myself is one of those others that may have caused it to be the way it is now.
i will only say what i think made me do things the way i do them...and i would like all of you to respond....
i am not as good as all of you in arabic...i speak, read and write it but i cannot elaborate as good as all of you....i do not have the skills to do so....thats why i try to stay away from topics that need such things....another things i would like all of you to know......before i joined shabab elyemen i used to read the news online every single day....and things i read about yemen just depressed me and i stopped reading them and joined this forum to get joy out of the internet instead of what i used to get out of it by reading the news.
i've noticed a lot of people in this forum criticising me in a lot of different ways...no need to say names but i hope they know who they are.....i am able to take criticism but not the point where it crosses the line of respect we should have for eachother.
i am in no position to criticize someone who did not harm me in any way with which ever they say.
i would like all of you to reply to this and tell me the things you think i do wrong in the forum and i am willing to listen to everything you have to say.

sorry for writing this in english...

[Dr.waleed]

أختي العزيزة كل سنة وإنتي طيبة ومن العايدين
لا أدري ما هذا الإحباط الذي أنتي مصابه به والذي أعرفه من خلال مشاركاتك بالمنتدى إنك ممتازه جدا وإن حوارك جيد ولم أكن أتوقع مثل هذا الكلام
فضلت أن أكتب ردي بالعربي لكي يكون أشمل وأوضح
بالنسبة لمهاراتك تقدرين أن تنميها بالقراءة بتصفح المنتدى وبأي شيء تعتقدين أنك ترتاحين له
بالنسبة للنقد ولابد أن لا يتجاوز خط الإحترام أعتقد أن النقد هو الذي يصحح الأخطاء وهو ما يبني المستقبل والمعلوم أننا كلنا نخطئ ونحتاج إلى تقويم وتعديل ولكن أيضا لابد أن يكون له حدود
أختي العزيزة لا تيأسي أنتي تمشين في الصواب لا عليك أبدا حاولي أن تنمي قدراتك وفقط وعاملي الجميع بجدية أكبر

دمتي بود

[**..AhMeD..**]

hi sister
..:..*..:..


i rwally don't know what've pushed to say all what s n above ..

first of all t s okay to vent and express what u got n englidh and this what english section s made here..
..:..*..:..

critsizing s the best way to know our mistakes; but i am talking about the kind of critisizing where t meant to show the mistake and giving the sloution...not critsize for critisizing only..

we all have different opinion and i my self deisagree with alot of urs n the political era, but who cares cuz i respect u as a person.... and actually i am forced to cuz u've never shown anything that 'd make do sthg else but respecting..

..:..*..:..


take t easy young lady and haev faith n ur self..

urs always
AhMeD

[ألــوان]

thank you for your kind words....both of you...

[T_K]

I really only participate in the English
forum .. so I don't know what's been going
on in the other sections .. I've seen nothing
wrong from you sis

Also, I think that you did the right thing
by posting this thread .. because if you
ever feel that way, you should express it
and not keep it to yourself

take carez

TK

[THE-MATRIX]

Hello sis,


just like tk said, it's a very good thing to share what u feel



Although i can't figure out the reason that pushed u away to depression,


but remember that we're here as one family brothers and sisters.. just don't care about those who lack self respect and live in a virtual world,

I mean to some extent, some ppl have a common sense that forums are like chat rooms, just pop in, drop some nasty words and sign out...

This's the real world is all about, we expect everything to be perfect but it isn't




well, in a case like this, just think about every good moment u had here, the sweet member u met




Personally, i believe that u didn't do anything wrong - although i'm not following all ur posts

but seeing the way u post here, u're framed in a sweet window that throws pink flowers





I'm not sayin this just to post a reply, it's a pure opinion





and, about the english thing,

well, believe it or not, i'm no good in arabic writing AT ALL

I used to write english emails all the time since the first day,

I used to meet non-arabic friends from all the world,

i used to participate in english forums all the time


that's why i find it comfortable writing in english - it's just the best way to express myself

and that's why i'm almost inactive in the other forums




I'm not happy with this, but I don't feel bad about it



so feel free to write in whichever language u like, as long as u're gonna speak ur mind




besides, i see nothing wrong with ur arabic posts - better than mine at least




well, I hope that u feel good now, the guys up there spelled their hearts purely I believe





Just smile for life



and remember: good memoris last for ever




have a good day

[ألــوان]

i dunno what to say....except thank you....all of u..u made me feel better....
and i hope i get better insha Allah

[الرهيب]

Salam
i get here too late

hi Adnia , about ur posted

I think this doesn't deserve all of that

about your arabic writing or reading its usual thing
if u don't live in Arabic country ,and u r ganna

be better and better than before ,like us in English
So take it easy

and again i'm ganna tell you ,about the

criticising its again usual thing and sometimes it helpful to you and sometimes no

And i think i was a first one who criticised you
but again take it easy
finnaly


we are brothers and sisters in this froum if have problems with Arabic writing we can help

not just in Arabic anything u need

thax alot

[Dream]

Sorry sister.... idon't know what make u feel like this ....maybe the cold weather in canada...i'm new here as u see and i found something made me laugh ALMOST NO ONE HERE AT THIS SITE LIVES IN YEMEN ...why is that? i thought i'm gonna find real yemenis here lives in yemen so we can share ideas about everything happining here...but it seems to be that is not gonna happen i choosed the wrong place and
found my self in the middle of yemenis (in name only)and have no relation with yemen now...maybe have some childhood memories

NO HARD FEELINGS OKAY!!

note:I'm from aden too :tongue_sm

[Dream]

let me tell u now about yemen but first i want to ask u something do u love ur mother??sure u will say YES and let me ask u again do u know why u love her??do you love her because she is the most beautiful women in the world or the sweetest mother in univers?? ofcourse NO you love her BECAUSE U LOVE HERE there is no reason it's something deep down in your heart something you borned with it it called TRUE LOVE ....UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
i have those feelings for my country ...with no reason..maybe yemen it's not the most amazing place on earth ...but IT IS...in my eyes and in all yemenis eyes
AND I BELLIVE YOU LOVE YEMEN TOO.. DON'T ASK YOUR SELF WHY...DON'T SEARCH FOR A REASON....DON'T CARE ABOUT ANY ONE ELSE ..YOU LOVE YEMEN AND BE PROUD BEING YEMENI... :36_3_12:

[T_K]

I just wanna say that I have the same
feelings you have for YEMEN ya dream

I was born and raised in Yemen, San3a
I came to the US when I was 17 years old
I had all my pre-college studies in Yemen
and now I'm finishing my college education
here in the US, but NOTHING and NO PLACE
in the world would compare to the nieghborhood
I was raised in and the days I played soccer barefoot
on the dusty fields loool

my regards

TK

[osamoq2003]

Me Too
I Have The Same Feeling

I Beleive That We All Have The Same Feeling

So I Just Say
((god Be With Us))


Peace